What’s Your Favorite May Flower?

Ann H Gabhart Ann's Posts, One Writer's Journal 6 Comments

I have many favorite flowers even if that sort of contradicts the word “favorite.” But each of the blooms is definitely a favorite when I’m looking at it or perhaps sniffing its fragrance or letting the flower walk me back a memory trail. Peonies do all of those things for me. I love the flowers. I love their spicy fragrance. I love their abundant blooms and the way they just come back year after year and decorate our yards. And I love the memories they bring. You see when I was a little girl, an aunt who was like a grandmother to me had two peony bushes in her yard. Bond lived at the homeplace so she and my father had probably grown up with those peonies blooming every year too. 

As you can see in the photo, I was impressed with the blooms at a very young age. That’s my cute blonde sister on the left and me trying to pick a bloom instead of look at the camera. I did like those peony bushes. When I got a little older, I liked to run and leap over them. There were two bushes side by side in the middle of the yard. One bush wasn’t as large as the other bush, so I could clear it easiest. I’m surprised my aunt didn’t put a stop to my jumping game, but I don’t suppose I ever hurt the bushes. Well, at least not too much. I’m so glad I was able to dig up a start from one of the bushes and plant it in my yard. It’s a treasure trove of memories. 

The old homeplace was sold a few years ago and the house torn down. And then the new owners moved in a manufactured home and kept mowing down the peonies until now the bushes are no more. I know those bushes must have been there in that yard for over one hundred years, but the new owners didn’t have the same treasured memories of them that I did. But I do wish I could have dug up more of the bulbs to let them continue growing somewhere else. A little bit of my heritage of flower loving ancestors. But at least they are still blooming in my yard and even if they weren’t, they would still be blooming in my memory.

Do you have any flowers like that in your memory?

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Some of you who get my newsletter said you had a hard time replying to that e-mail. I’m sorry if you had difficulty. I appreciate those of you who didn’t give up and managed to get the message sent. But I know that sort of thing is frustrating. I’ve also had some of you say it’s hard to leave comments here on my blog posts. I don’t know why, but if you would rather enter by sending me an e-mail here’s my address. annhgabhart(at)hughes(dot)net. 

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Thanks for reading. And I’d love to hear about your Mother’s Day or your favorite May flowers.

Comments 6

  1. Melanie Schemanski

    Lilacs! My grandmother has lilacs that came from her childhood home. I had gotten shoots from it to plant at our first home years ago many homes later I wish I still had them!
    My fav Bible is whatever pastor is using so I can follow along! Right now is NKJV

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      Ann H Gabhart

      I love lilacs too. I don't have a start from the bush that was in my aunt's yard, but one from my brother-in-law's house. I nursed that start for several years and then moved it with us when we built a house. Now we have several bushes started from that little switch my brother-in-law chopped out of the ground for me. Our pastor changes translations practically every sermon. He'd keep me guessing as to which Bible to bring to church. Thanks for stopping by, Melanie.

  2. Kristie

    I love lilacs! They smell wonderful! Mother's Day was hard this year because one of my cats died. I had two. I really miss her and can't believe she's gone. She was about 14 and had complications from dental surgery. So Mother's Day was sad for me. Plus my grandma is in assisted living and does not recognize me. It's so emotionally devastating. Maybe next year will be better. kristiedonelson(at)gmail(dot)com Thank you.

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      Ann H Gabhart

      Kristie, it's so hard to lose those furry friends. I'm glad you still have your other cat to keep you company. And I know about that other sadness too of your grandmother no longer recognizing you. My mother didn't know me for the last several months of her life, but I knew down under the dementia she still knew me in her heart. That's how your grandmother is too. The love is there under the illness. She's probably remembering you as a little child and so can't connect that to the person you actually are now. That's how Mom was sometimes. Just keep loving her anyway as I know you will.

  3. Lisa Bragg

    Marigolds always remind me of my grandmother. She had a porch with 4 posts. She planted Marigolds in front of each post . She "gave" them to us kids, mine was the second from the right post. Every year!!! I remember watering "my" flowers and taking care of then while my sister and two brothers did the same for "theirs". Ma always had a way of making us feel special!

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